“Meeting other people and finding out we're not alone has made a big difference"

After a difficult year of recovery and health challenges, James and his partner Claire found friendship, support and a renewed sense of confidence through the RAF Benevolent Fund's Group Friendship Break, reminding them they are not facing life's challenges alone.

When James and his partner Claire attended the Fund’s Group Friendship Break in Suffolk in June 2026, they were emerging from one of the toughest periods of their lives. Following a stroke just over a year ago, James was adjusting to sight loss, fatigue and the loss of his independence, while Claire had been facing her own cancer diagnosis.

The break offered something they both needed – the chance to step away from their day-to-day challenges, connect with others and enjoy themselves. James had often felt on the sidelines since his stroke but being part of the group helped him regain confidence and feel involved again.

He said: "The break was absolutely fantastic. It was great to be able to be involved in stuff again and not just sitting on the fringes and watching what's going on like I used to.”

One of the things that stood out most to James was the sense of belonging and camaraderie he experienced throughout the stay. Despite meeting many of the group for the first time, friendships formed quickly through shared experiences and activities.

James said: "We did nothing but laugh from start to finish; it was brilliant. It was like a big family Christmas. You were chatting away and laughing and joking, but it was like being around people you'd known for years."

The break also had a profound impact on Claire. Having been together for 30 years, she had supported James through his stroke while dealing with her own health challenges.

Spending time with other veterans and partners helped her realise that the Fund's support extended to families too.

RAF spouses, widows and widowers are welcome to attend the Fund’s Group Breaks. James explained: "Claire thought it was my thing to start with, and then she found out it's not just about me, it's about her as well."

For both, the time away provided a rare opportunity to relax and forget about their health concerns for a while. James said: "I honestly can't remember the last time I saw Claire laugh as much as she did, or joke about as much. She had an amazing time. It was one of the best holidays I've ever been on."

Most importantly, the break helped James and Claire feel less alone. Meeting others facing similar challenges reassured them that support is available from the Fund whenever they need it.

James added: "Meeting other people and finding out we're not alone has made a big difference."

The experience gave them both renewed confidence, new friendships and the comfort of knowing they are part of a wider RAF Family that will be there for them in the future.